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𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥.
No matter what you do or where you go, you will love each other forever.
This is the highest state in a human relationship and is the beginning of the spiritual connection.
To reach this state, you must go through the 4 basic stages of human relationships. It is a gradual process that may be confusing and frustrating at times.
Many couples give up before they reach their destination and miss the opportunity to experience the extasis of unconditional love. They stop moving forward, settle, isolate themselves, and stop caring for each other, and their relationship stagnates.
Let’s walk through this beautiful journey to the heart and the obstacles we meet along the way.
𝐂𝐨𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞: Coexisting means that you can share physical space. For example, you do this with your co-workers in the office or with your friends when you gather.
Coexistence is based on respect and distance. Couples in this stage live together but at the same time apart. They share little and spend little time together, and they have no common interests and no intimacy. They relate to each other in a cold and distant way.
The only reason these couples communicate is that they live together. If they did not live together, they would have no relationship at all.
𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞: This is the second stage and revolves around desires. You have compatible desires and enjoy them together. Food, sensual pleasures, travel, movies, sports… When doing some of these activities, you exchange your energy and enjoy together.
In these cases, the relationship is tied to desires. When desires change or are no longer compatible, the relationship breaks down. It becomes cold and meaningless. It goes back to the coexisting stage, or a breakup happens.
𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞: In this stage, the man and woman are united by a common external goal. They know how to communicate effectively. They talk, reach agreements, organise, share responsibilities and take action. They have an attitude of partnership and active collaboration.
Couples at this level can create great things together. Projects, business, family… They can also go through difficult times and solve big problems together.
The exchange in these relationships is conditioned by the external goal. When there is no goal, the relationship freezes. The exchange of energy ceases to occur.
𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞: At this level, the man and woman have opened their hearts fully. They love each other regardless of where they are, what they desire, or their common goals. They recognise value and beauty in each other and set no conditions for the partner.
In this state, love is unwavering. Even if circumstances cause the couple to separate, they will continue to love each other forever with perfect love.
𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐞.
And to get there, your relationship has to develop through the other stages and overcome limitations, attachments and traumas.
The path becomes much easier when you know the signs and how to overcome the obstacles.
At Inner Spark, we help men and women of the new world transform themselves and their relationships so they can enjoy that unbreakable love.
This world of limitations is most afraid of soul mates who love each other limitlessly.
If you want us to work together on your growth path, PM us, and we’ll talk.