𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐜𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐥𝐞𝐬.
Those who expect relationships to be exciting and fun never know this Total Love. As soon as things go wrong, they give up. They isolate themselves, and they go looking for fun in other neighbourhoods.
And one thing is sure, things will go wrong sooner or later. I’ll explain to you why and how to get through this storm.
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐮𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐜 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐭. 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫; 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐱𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫.
You get to know each other’s history, bodies, and culinary tastes for the first few months. That’s great.
In the meantime, the energy of your relationship gets deeper and deeper until it reaches your inner walls.
This is when the healing stage, or the stage of bitter alchemy, begins. The hour of the braves ones.
Conflicts, fears, worries, stress, weakness, grief… Whatever you carry inside you in the form of a painful memory, you will project it onto your partner.
𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐍𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡.
There is nothing wrong, you have done nothing wrong, and no one is to blame for anything. This is inevitable, and it will happen whether you like it or not.
These 3 practices will be fundamental in your adventure:
“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞”
Trauma healing does not happen overnight. It is an alchemical process that requires transmuting and releasing huge amounts of energy stored in our unconscious mind in the form of pain and suffering.
Be comfortable, don’t expect quick results, and don’t rush. Let nature take its course.
Only infinite patience produces immediate results.
“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬”
You and your partner must understand that things will get ugly no matter what you do. This awareness will help you not to blame each other and to go through the process consciously.
Forgiveness allows you to let go of all these experiences as moments of release and healing. It will free you from fights, conflicts, arguments and other unconscious habits.
Go through that hell with your partner. Help each other, forgive each other for everything, and you will give birth to a level of connection that few people can even imagine.
“𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞”
If your purpose is to have fun, have a good time, distract yourself and have someone to watch movies with, you will run away as soon as the cleansing process starts.
What keeps you on track is an ambitious common purpose. To create a family, start a business, transform your life, and experience the true union of Perfect Lovers… any of these may work as a purpose.
That light on the horizon will give meaning to your endeavour.
𝐎𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬. 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟.
An unbreakable trust that not even death can break.
Conscious love will accompany you throughout this life and beyond. It will take you by the hand to the ends of the universe. You will understand everything and love everything.
The experience of 1000 lives in one single caress.