𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐧, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐜𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦.
And when trust is lacking, the 4 demons of self-isolation come: judgement, rejection, distance and coldness.
Stormy memories from our past, with our family or ex-partners, can leave a residue of pain in our hearts that makes it hard for us to open up.
In this post, I will explain the basics of mistrust of men and how you can work with yourself to embody the TOAL TRUST that allows you to lower your defences and enjoy the men of your life.
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝟑 𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐧:
“𝐈𝐟 𝐈 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭, 𝐈’𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥”
It feels like you are opening pandora’s box. The emotions, feelings and sensations will be so intense that you will lose control over yourself, your decisions and actions.
The fear of losing control is directly connected to the quality of POWER. It is an indicator that within you, you have yet to develop your power, your self-confidence, and your ability to push through and take responsibility for your life.
When you own your personal power, nothing can have control over you. Then you relax and enjoy yourself unconditionally. You become the warrior-goddess who fears nothing.
“𝐈𝐟 𝐈 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭, 𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞”
You feel that if you show your most vulnerable sides to your partner, they may limit you and take advantage.
The fear of being limited by someone is connected with the quality of FREEDOM. It indicates that you are not expressing yourself freely somewhere in your life. You feel limited by social programs, beliefs, habits or a mechanical routine that does not allow you to share your energy.
When you fully express what you have inside you, you understand that, in reality, it was you who was limiting yourself. Freedom has always been YOURS. Can you imagine a Goddess afraid that someone or something will limit her? Impossible!
“𝐈𝐟 𝐈 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭, 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭”
You think a man can hurt you with contempt, so you prefer to hide and avoid the risk.
This thought is connected with the quality of VALUE. It indicates that within you, you have not yet crystallised self-respect. You are not 100% convinced of your value, beauty, what you can bring to the world, your gifts and purpose.
When you are convinced of your value, you embody the archetype of the Shining Queen. You feel beautiful and valued at all times. Then you don’t fear that any unconscious man can diminish your value. You don’t care what people say or think. You will be enjoying yourself as the treasure you are at all times.
𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐎𝐖𝐄𝐑, 𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐄𝐃𝐎𝐌 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐕𝐀𝐋𝐔𝐄, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐓𝐎𝐓𝐀𝐋 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄.
Then, you are loving and attentive to all without effort: men, women, children, enemies, friends…
Your presence permeates everything.
You bless everyone.
Powerful, free and valuable men will come to you naturally. And your relationship will blossom into a perfect intimacy that will take you to the deepest levels of connection.
If you connect with this message or have any questions about how to develop these qualities, comment on the post or send me a PM.
At Inner Spark, we help men and women of the new world to look each other in the eyes and come together in perfect trust.
The world needs this true union more than ever.