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The Great Danger of Relationships on Autopilot

When we don’t attend to our relationship and let it develop on its own, our limiting programs take over and end up destroying all the good things we have created.

If you don’t want this to happen to you, keep reading. I’ll tell you what relationships on autopilot are and how to identify and transform them into conscious relations.

๐๐š๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐›๐ž ๐›๐ž๐š๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ฑ๐œ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ.

What usually happens is that at the beginning, everything is a garden of exotic flowers, which in time, turns into a cloudy winter.

Two factors why this happens: autopilot and our limiting programs.

When we start to live unconsciously, assuming everything will be fine, we activate autopilot. We relax and let everything unfold by itself.

But inside us, in our unconscious mind, we have behavioural programs, traumas, fears, social conditioning… And as soon as we switch off, they take over.

That’s why love becomes judgement.

Tenderness becomes coldness.

And intimacy ends up going down the drain of late-night quarrels.

๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ฆ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐œ๐š๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ฎ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ:

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ ๐œ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž.

The relationship between man and woman is a road to paradise. When your relationship doesn’t have a clear goal or a small, ordinary purpose, you will likely get distracted and go on autopilot.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐š๐ข๐ง.

Intimacy awakens all the traumas we have inside. Our pain, sadness, insecurities, loneliness, weakness… the good stuff!

 If you are not naturally facing these traumas in your relationship, it probably means that you are avoiding them. This is a clear sign of relationships on autopilot. You can spend years living together without paying attention to these healing processes, and thus intimacy becomes cold.

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ ๐›๐ข๐ .

If you start fighting over the little things, like food, clothes, the house… you may have stopped consciously guiding your relationship.

When you keep your eyes fixed on the horizon, that place where you want to take your relationship, and you stand firm in your decision, the little things are of little importance. You can get through them without drama and without feeling bad.

When the important is neglected, the unimportant becomes a drama.

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ž. ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐›๐ž ๐ฉ๐š๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐›๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ก ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐œ๐ฒ.

There is no stronger bond than that which unites souls who have endured hardships together and grown together.

That love is beyond anything we can imagine. You feel you can die in peace with the other person when you are there, and his very presence makes you feel ready for anything.

To give everything.

And to receive everything.

If you want to get off autopilot and take control of your relationship and your life, PM me.

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