The Great Danger of Relationships on Autopilot

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When we don’t attend to our relationship and let it develop on its own, our limiting programs take over and end up destroying all the good things we have created.

If you don’t want this to happen to you, keep reading. I’ll tell you what relationships on autopilot are and how to identify and transform them into conscious relations.

饾悕饾悮饾惌饾惍饾惈饾悮饾惀饾惀饾惒, 饾惈饾悶饾惀饾悮饾惌饾悽饾惃饾惂饾惉饾悺饾悽饾惄饾惉 饾惉饾悺饾惃饾惍饾惀饾悵 饾悰饾悶 饾悰饾悶饾悮饾惍饾惌饾悽饾悷饾惍饾惀 饾悮饾惂饾悵 饾悶饾惐饾悳饾悽饾惌饾悽饾惂饾悹 饾悷饾惃饾惈饾悶饾惎饾悶饾惈. 饾悂饾惍饾惌 饾惌饾悺饾悽饾惉 饾悽饾惉 饾惂饾惃饾惌 饾惏饾悺饾悮饾惌 饾惍饾惉饾惍饾悮饾惀饾惀饾惒 饾悺饾悮饾惄饾惄饾悶饾惂饾惉.

What usually happens is that at the beginning, everything is a garden of exotic flowers, which in time, turns into a cloudy winter.

Two factors why this happens: autopilot and our limiting programs.

When we start to live unconsciously, assuming everything will be fine, we activate autopilot. We relax and let everything unfold by itself.

But inside us, in our unconscious mind, we have behavioural programs, traumas, fears, social conditioning… And as soon as we switch off, they take over.

That’s why love becomes judgement.

Tenderness becomes coldness.

And intimacy ends up going down the drain of late-night quarrels.

饾悡饾悺饾悶饾惉饾悶 饾悮饾惈饾悶 饾惌饾悺饾悶 饾煈 饾惁饾悮饾悽饾惂 饾悽饾惂饾悵饾悽饾悳饾悮饾惌饾惃饾惈饾惉 饾惌饾悺饾悮饾惌 饾惒饾惃饾惍 饾悮饾惈饾悶 饾悽饾惂 饾悮 饾惈饾悶饾惀饾悮饾惌饾悽饾惃饾惂饾惉饾悺饾悽饾惄 饾惃饾惂 饾悮饾惍饾惌饾惃饾惄饾悽饾惀饾惃饾惌:

饾悩饾惃饾惍饾惈 饾惈饾悶饾惀饾悮饾惌饾悽饾惃饾惂饾惉饾悺饾悽饾惄 饾悺饾悮饾惉 饾惂饾惃 饾悳饾惀饾悶饾悮饾惈 饾惄饾惍饾惈饾惄饾惃饾惉饾悶.

The relationship between man and woman is a road to paradise. When your relationship doesn’t have a clear goal or a small, ordinary purpose, you will likely get distracted and go on autopilot.

饾悩饾惃饾惍 饾悮饾惎饾惃饾悽饾悵 饾惄饾悮饾悽饾惂.

Intimacy awakens all the traumas we have inside. Our pain, sadness, insecurities, loneliness, weakness… the good stuff!

 If you are not naturally facing these traumas in your relationship, it probably means that you are avoiding them. This is a clear sign of relationships on autopilot. You can spend years living together without paying attention to these healing processes, and thus intimacy becomes cold.

饾悡饾悺饾悶 饾惉饾惁饾悮饾惀饾惀 饾悰饾悶饾悳饾惃饾惁饾悶饾惉 饾悰饾悽饾悹.

If you start fighting over the little things, like food, clothes, the house… you may have stopped consciously guiding your relationship.

When you keep your eyes fixed on the horizon, that place where you want to take your relationship, and you stand firm in your decision, the little things are of little importance. You can get through them without drama and without feeling bad.

When the important is neglected, the unimportant becomes a drama.

饾悥饾悺饾悶饾惂 饾惒饾惃饾惍 饾悮饾惌饾惌饾悶饾惂饾悵 饾惌饾惃 饾惒饾惃饾惍饾惈 饾惈饾悶饾惀饾悮饾惌饾悽饾惃饾惂饾惉饾悺饾悽饾惄, 饾惌饾悺饾悶 饾悶饾惐饾惄饾悶饾惈饾悽饾悶饾惂饾悳饾悶饾惉 饾悮饾惈饾悶 饾悽饾惂饾惌饾悶饾惂饾惉饾悶. 饾悡饾悺饾悶饾惒 饾悳饾悮饾惂 饾悰饾悶 饾惄饾悮饾悽饾惂饾悷饾惍饾惀, 饾悰饾惍饾惌 饾惌饾悺饾悶饾惒 饾悮饾惀饾惏饾悮饾惒饾惉 饾悰饾惈饾悽饾惂饾悹 饾悹饾惈饾惃饾惏饾惌饾悺 饾悮饾惂饾悵 饾悽饾惂饾惌饾悽饾惁饾悮饾悳饾惒.

There is no stronger bond than that which unites souls who have endured hardships together and grown together.

That love is beyond anything we can imagine. You feel you can die in peace with the other person when you are there, and his very presence makes you feel ready for anything.

To give everything.

And to receive everything.

If you want to get off autopilot and take control of your relationship and your life, PM me.