“𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝, 𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝟑𝟎…”
Everyone wants to connect. It is the greatest of all pleasures.
It’s what we crave most. And the thing that scares us the most…
When we open the doors of true communion, we open the box of adventure: A new friendship, a new love, and opportunities to manifest abundance…
Ready for adventure?
I’ll tell you how to overcome social ice and generate true connections in your relationships.
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝟒 𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐲 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:
The first is that you can use people for your personal interests.
The second is the belief that we can connect ONLY by doing things together or thinking alike.
The third is the belief that people prefer to be alone and not to be disturbed.
And the fourth is the panic of silence.
𝐒𝐞𝐞𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭.
You may be looking for a partner, friends or clients. In any case, if you intend to use the interaction for your personal interests, you will feel needy and generate tension rather than connection.
The most important thing is the human encounter. The exchange of energy. Focus on making it happen; enjoy it. The results of that connection will come to you naturally.
𝐎𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐬.
Sharing activities or points of view creates fleeting connections that are forgotten after a few days. This is what most people do.
The real spark happens when we connect our emotional worlds. When we share jokes, confessions, longings, frustrations, and have fun together.
Ask yourself, what is the emotional experience this person is going through right now?
𝐁𝐞 𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝.
Ask and observe. People want to feel understood. Attended. Offer attention, and you will make people enjoy your company and share their feelings.
Listen to them and show them with your words that you understand what they are saying. Mirror their expressions, their body language.
This will allow you to share your own feelings and enjoy the treasure of mutual trust.
𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤.
Sound travels through the air, and human connection travels through silence. Allow it. Breathe it in.
We all need time and space to open up. When we fall into compulsive conversation, we make our interactions shallow and irrelevant.
The discomfort you feel when there is silence is partly fear of being judged or rejected by the other person. Don’t succumb. Relax and let your presence work its magic.
𝐈𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡.
You would have an abundance of friends, lovers, partners, clients, intimates, assistants, and companions…
If you want to create those connections and transform your life, PM me.
At Inner Spark, we help new-world men and women manifest their conscious relationship through authentic connection, intimacy, commitment and understanding of sacred alchemical processes.
This track leads from isolation to perfect union with our loving partner.
The path of the heart.