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You can healthily give and receive attention without creating negativity or fear. Enjoying and making your partner enjoy.
In this article, I share with you the 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐝𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐜𝐬 and how you should use them in your relationship.
First of all, attention requests are natural. They are connected with the Ying essence and represent the call from the static to the dynamic. Aka, the call from the feminine to the masculine.
Nature is full of elements that create attraction: sounds, smells, colours, shapes…
So don’t feel something is wrong if you like to attract attention or if your partner or children want you to pay attention to them. It’s normal, nice and healthy.
But we don’t always draw attention to ourselves in a healthy way.
Sometimes we do it because we feel deprived or lonely, we want to unload our stresses on someone else, or we do it out of fear of rejection, or abandonment…
𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲: 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬, 𝐝𝐨𝐮𝐛𝐭𝐬, 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐭, 𝐫𝐞𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐦𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐫𝐲…
Your partner does not enjoy this, and they avoid you. And, of course, that creates even more anxiety and fear.
We usually request attention to get something: love, tenderness, joy, money, help, approval… And we forget the most important: it is a way to express yourself.
This is the thing: The flowers do not dress in beautiful colours to attract insects. They do it because that is their nature.
They feel fulfilled when they are beautiful; the rest happens by itself. Everything and everyone enjoys them.
𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐍𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐊 𝐰𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝, 𝐰𝐞 𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐣𝐨𝐲.
It’s time for you to discover the magic of positive attention requests: With smiles, jokes, solutions, flirting, spontaneous ideas, and surprises.
The story will change completely: You will enjoy doing it, and your partner will come to you naturally.
I share with you a cool practice to undo this bad habit:
𝐎𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: For one week, write down all the times you’ve requested attention to yourself using negativity.
𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲: Go through that list and reinvent how you could draw attention positively for each of those situations.
𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞: Use the ideas you have come up with and monitor the outcomes. You’re sure to be amazed by the changes you will experience in yourself and your partner’s answers.
Write to me and tell me about your experience 😉.
When you enjoy asking for attention, the attention will be given to you with joy. Your partner, family members, colleagues …. Everyone will be happy to attend to you because they want to be PART of your joy.
𝐉𝐨𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐭.
When you create this habit of healthy attention, communication with your partner will become joyful.
And when you regulate that communication so that you express your masculine and feminine essence, you will generate polarity, which will bring passion, intensity and intimacy.
This is the gateway to true connection, alchemy and ultimate union with your partner.
In our 90-day program for couples, we accompany you in reinventing your communication so that you call and respond to each other in a fun and relaxed way.
We guide you through our practices of positive self-expression and conscious response. You will discover how easy it is to enjoy calling your partner and how pleasurable it is when your partner seeks you out spontaneously and joyfully.
Once you have overcome the habit of negative communication, we accompany you in the process of creating polarity and attraction and learning the principles of Intergender Alchemy so you can support each other during your healing periods.
If you want to work with us, shoot me a PM in facebook here, or fill the form of the program here. Ill contact you and we will have a short talk to confirm that you are the right person for this program.