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You can healthily give and receive attention without creating negativity or fear. Enjoying and making your partner enjoy.
In this article, I share with you the ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ฒ๐ง๐๐ฆ๐ข๐๐ฌ and how you should use them in your relationship.
First of all, attention requests are natural. They are connected with the Ying essence and represent the call from the static to the dynamic. Aka, the call from the feminine to the masculine.
Nature is full of elements that create attraction: sounds, smells, colours, shapes…
So don’t feel something is wrong if you like to attract attention or if your partner or children want you to pay attention to them. It’s normal, nice and healthy.
But we don’t always draw attention to ourselves in a healthy way.
Sometimes we do it because we feel deprived or lonely, we want to unload our stresses on someone else, or we do it out of fear of rejection, or abandonment…
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐๐ฐ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ฏ๐๐ฌ ๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ: ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ, ๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ฆ๐จ๐๐ค๐๐ซ๐ฒ…
Bad Business.
Your partner does not enjoy this, and they avoid you. And, of course, that creates even more anxiety and fear.
We usually request attention to get something: love, tenderness, joy, money, help, approval… And we forget the most important: it is a way to express yourself.
This is the thing: The flowers do not dress in beautiful colours to attract insects. They do it because that is their nature.
They feel fulfilled when they are beautiful; the rest happens by itself. Everything and everyone enjoys them.
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐, ๐ฐ๐ ๐ค๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฒ.
It’s time for you to discover the magic of positive attention requests: With smiles, jokes, solutions, flirting, spontaneous ideas, and surprises.
The story will change completely: You will enjoy doing it, and your partner will come to you naturally.
I share with you a cool practice to undo this bad habit:
๐๐๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: For one week, write down all the times you’ve requested attention to yourself using negativity.
๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ: Go through that list and reinvent how you could draw attention positively for each of those situations.
๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐๐: Use the ideas you have come up with and monitor the outcomes. You’re sure to be amazed by the changes you will experience in yourself and your partner’s answers.
Write to me and tell me about your experience ๐.
When you enjoy asking for attention, the attention will be given to you with joy. Your partner, family members, colleagues …. Everyone will be happy to attend to you because they want to be PART of your joy.
Remember:
๐๐จ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ญ.
When you create this habit of healthy attention, communication with your partner will become joyful.
And when you regulate that communication so that you express your masculine and feminine essence, you will generate polarity, which will bring passion, intensity and intimacy.
This is the gateway to true connection, alchemy and ultimate union with your partner.
In our 90-day program for couples, we accompany you in reinventing your communication so that you call and respond to each other in a fun and relaxed way.
We guide you through our practices of positive self-expression and conscious response. You will discover how easy it is to enjoy calling your partner and how pleasurable it is when your partner seeks you out spontaneously and joyfully.
Once you have overcome the habit of negative communication, we accompany you in the process of creating polarity and attraction and learning the principles of Intergender Alchemy so you can support each other during your healing periods.
If you want to work with us, shoot me a PM in facebook here, or fill the form of the program here. Ill contact you and we will have a short talk to confirm that you are the right person for this program.